If you’re living your life in constant worry and doubt, fearful that your spouse might be physically or emotionally cheating, you need to find out the truth and put your mind at ease. Even thinking that your spouse may be unfaithful is a stressful and painful thought. The best and safest way to find out if your husband or wife is cheating is to hire a private investigator to do the research for you.
Our team at Premiere Investigations is trained to handle sensitive infidelity cases with the utmost subtly, respect and discretion.
What Does An Infidelity Investigation Entail?
While we have many tools at our disposal to identify possible Infidelity, by far the most effective is covert surveillance. Our surveillance experts are experienced and focused on discreetly obtaining video and photographic evidence you need to make informed decisions.
What Should You Expect from an Infidelity Investigation?
Answers, certainty and solid evidence. You will now be armed with solid information and facts needed to take control of your situation.
Some common signs of a cheating spouse or partner are:
1. Changing Habits/ Extra Grooming
Your spouse is buying expensive clothes and paying particular attention to their hair, skin and makeup. It could be a mid-life crisis or a sign of boosting self-esteem but there may be another reason for this ``extra effort.`` If they returned from work every day for the past 10 years at 5 p.m., but recently they are pushing the arrival time to 9 p.m. or so. If they are working late, offer to bring him dinner, if they decline, look into the situation.
2. Leaving Early and Returning Late/Business Trips/ Holiday Absences
Unfaithful spouses may leave the house right after their shower, just to have breakfast with someone else. Is this another unexplained change in routine habits? They say they have a business trip but state it’s against company policy to bring you along. A cheating spouse will find reasons not to participate in family events or dinners. They may also stop attending the child’s sporting even or even stop spending time with the children altogether.
3. Excessive Overtime/Unexplained Expenditures
Their job and paycheck are the same but the workload seems to have doubled. They earn money but none of it seems to be deposited into your joint bank account. The ATM withdrawals and large purchases made can’t be explained. Affairs are costly.
4. Secretive Accounts/Hidden Bills and Letters
You both use to have an open-door policy concerning shared finances, but now your partner insists on handling it all and accuses you of snooping through their wallets or computer bags looking for bank statements. There are expenditures and phone numbers that your spouse will not want you to see, so they hide credit card and phone bills and re-direct bills to be sent to work instead of home. In some cases, spouses rent mailboxes to keep their privacy.
5. Scent of Another Woman/Buying Jewelry/Unexplained Items
He comes home from a long day of work appearing freshly showered, well-groomed and smelling of women’s perfume. Is your spouse is buying women's jewelry but you haven't seen any of it. You find various items in their car: cologne, hair spray, blankets, ticket stubs, hotel keys, greeting cards, lipstick, earrings and condom wrappers.
6. Hang-Ups & Text Messages
Has the number of hang-up telephone calls at your residence spiked? You observe an unusually high amount of text messaging and they always arrive late at night. A cheating spouse will keep their cellular close and always assign a password. In some cases, you may even find a secondary phone stored away in a private spot.
7. Health Club Membership/Less Sex
Your spouse become engrossed in physical appearance and suddenly joins a gym. They give you a guilt trip about becoming healthy but they never want you to tag along or purchase your own membership at the “same” gym. A distinct increase or decrease in intimacy and affection levels or sexual preferences may hint indicate infidelity.
8. Obvious Lies /Behavioural Changes/Hates Surprise Visits
Friends have seen your spouse at a bar with a companion of the other sex. You question where they were and they deflect a truthful answer. They become irritated when asked simple questions and easily provoked to start a fight. Arguments become more frequent after you ask about their day or where they’ve been. They stop providing free information about plans or errands. Does your spouse become angry when you show up unannounced their office? Maybe they don’t’ want you to meet any of the new male/female employees. Office affairs on the rise. Statically, most affairs start where your spouse spends 8-10 hours a day.